How dare you want to teach people to market to the gay community!? - Jenn T. Grace—Book Publisher, Speaker, and Author Skip to the content

How dare you want to teach people to market to the gay community!?

How-dare-you-want-to-teach-people-to-market-to-the-gay-community!-Previously, I shared an email I received with you regarding a crank pot who didn’t really agree or understand what it is that I do. He was responding to a message I sent to him via LinkedIn. I know the response came from a straight man – and someone I would certainly not consider to be an ally. Just because you are straight and want to sell to the LGBT community does not make you an ally. (Click here for a definition of an ally.)

However, out of the hundreds upon hundreds of email exchanges I had with people I had one other cranky person reach out to me. However, this short email came from a lesbian. I want to share this with you because while I feel her response is not the common response, there are people who are part of the LGBT community who feel the way she does. For this reason, I think her perspective is worth sharing. Her email in its entirety is as follows –

I don’t at all understand or appreciate the thought that someone has to TEACH people to market or advertise to the LGBT community. The product is either good or it isn’t. I find it insulting, manipulative and capitalistic. BIG THUMBS DOWN—-GROSS.

A prior cranky person, I had only met in person once. This weeks featured crank pot, however, I’ve met on multiple occasions and even taught her how to use a few graphic design programs a couple of years back. With that being said I am not going to diminish her words here. In your LGBT outreach, marketing, and communications travels you will ultimately come across someone who is unpleasable for one reason or another. I would tell you that if you encounter this person and you get a response like this, she (or he) is not your ideal target customer. It would ultimately be a waste of your time to pursue this LGBT person because nothing you say or do will be what they want to hear.

When I stuck the stake in the ground and said listen “I teach straight people how to market to gay people (and gay people how to market themselves).” I had some people within the community who were not thrilled that I would be teaching straight people proper marketing and communications skills to reach our community. Fortunately these naysayers are far and few between. Ultimately my argument here is – wouldn’t you rather have someone who cares about the community and is trying but needs some guidance versus someone who thinks you are burning in hell because of who you are but will happily take your money anyway?

I help the people who care about the community but just don’t know the right language to use or the proper ways to express themselves. On a daily basis I am vetting the inauthentic from the authentic. When someone approaches me and they are inauthentic, I explain to them that this isn’t a path they should be going down and it’ll be a waste of their time and money, if they did.

My teachings are not something you would find in a NASA manual –  often it is basic common courtesy. I’m here to help you be successful in reaching out to the LGBT community and not have to face unnecessary challenges along the way. If you want the complete guide for how to do this, check out my book (which is an Amazon Best Seller – thanks to my amazing readers!), No, wait… You do look gay! The 7 Mistakes Preventing You from Selling to the $830 Billion LGBT Market

 

About Jenn T. Grace

Jenn T. Grace (she/her/hers) is an award-winning author and founder and CEO of Publish Your Purpose (PYP), the acclaimed hybrid publisher of non-fiction books. Jenn has published nearly 200 books written by thought leaders, visionaries, and entrepreneurs who are striving to make a difference. Jenn T. Grace’s work elevates and amplifies the voices of others—especially marginalized groups who are regularly excluded from traditional publishing.

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